Impotence is a man's inability or difficulty to have or maintain an erection. Although a lot of physical causes may be attributed to impotence, there are also psychological factors that lead to it. Some of these can be depression, stress and pressures about home or work, anxiety, relationship problems and arguments, insecurities and a low self-esteem, and even sexual boredom and the loss of intimacy. These problems can be addressed as psychosomatic problems since these situations are affected by psychological factors or the emotion.
When this is the case, then there are very high chances of curing the impotence. It may sound difficult at first, especially if you do not want to resolve the problem or you fear it, or worse is that you are unaware of the situation. However, when you have accepted that there is a problem and there is a need to work on it, then you can try different ways to treat psychosomatic impotence by using psychology as well. One does not need to turn to medications or surgery right away.
One treatment that you can undergo is Psychosexual Therapy. In psychosexual therapy or psychotherapy, the man and his partner are given techniques or exercises to help them renew their intimacy, sexual relation, sexual interests, and arousal. This can be done through talks, discussions, and activities that can lift the stress or anxiety that hasten impotence.
Another cure for impotence can be behavior modification. A new and positive outlook about one's self, performance, and even his partner can bring about change and improvements. Behavior modification can really take time, but it is also cheaper and does not only help cure impotence, it also improves one's personality.
To do this, here are a few suggested tips:
. Do a little reality check including a check on your personal situation and your present situation with your partner. What do you really feel about yourself, your member, and your partner?
. Talk with your partner to make things easier and lighter. It lifts up your burden and at the same time you are confident that there is someone who listens to you. If your partner is the one that's putting the strain on you, all the more that you should talk. Ask what your partner wants, say what you want, and come into a solution. You have to speak up and work things out together without turning into an argument.
. Your lifestyle is very important and it affects your penile health a great deal, so do a check on your lifestyle. Just like taking care of the rest of your body, you should also take care of your penis. Trim down your fat, alcohol and nicotine or tobacco intake. Eat healthier and try to do some exercises. If possible, get into an exercise program or visit the gym regularly.
. If you still have more concerns, then it's time that you should seek professional advice from a trained therapist or doctor. Remember that you should not be ashamed of your situation and that you are not the only one suffering from it.
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ReplyDeleteYesterday I became a little frustrated when I was forced to make small talk with someone when I wanted to go into my room to avoid the person. The person was there to see someone else who also lives in my house. As I said, the person engaged me in small talk against my will. For this I resent the person and today, in the car, I became angry at this person. I felt is was wrong to do what they did. They asked questions of me that I found uncomfortable, and while these questions may have be asked in order to be friendly, because I had no polite way of avoiding these questions I felt that asking them was in fact quite selfish.I am getting a little bit angry just thinking about it.I think what makes me mad is that, on the surface I feel the actions in question would be regarded by most as quite benign, but I feel that they are not benign at all, and my reaction is justified. Selfish motives were hidden behind a veil of friendliness, perhaps sub-consciously, but since when is that an excuse?This happened in my house, which is I think another reason why it upset me, and it was quite deliberate. Instead of simply waiting for the person for whom the person in question was waiting, perhaps while sitting in the living room watching TV, which would have been quite acceptable and appropriate, the person in question made their way into the kitchen in order to engage me, an aquaintance, in small talk. At the time I was talking to someone else, but they left suddenly, leaving me completely exposed to a small talk engagement maneuver by this visitor to the house.I answered the questions, though I did not want to.I often suppress my true feelings behind faux-politeness. Perhaps that is a pleonasm, faux or fake politeness; isn't politeness by definition somewhat ingenuine?
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